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A Beautiful Mess

This Week’s Inspirational Mess comes from April:

In The Catcher in the Rye, Holden Caulfield referred to his roommate as a “secret slob.” I don’t identify with Stradlater in any other way, but I definitely identify with this aspect of his character. At work I have always been very efficient and organized. At home, it’s a different story. Marrying a neat freak has made me put a lot more effort into organization and neatness at home, but it’s hard to break a quarter century of bad habits.

There are often little messes around my home, usually because I’m always in the middle of several projects at once. Recently when my friend, Dionne, was visiting from Arkansas, we decided to indulge in a project we used to do all the time when we were younger. We plopped down in the floor with a bunch of beads and string and made bracelets. It was a fun time that took us back to the old days, and it was fun to pass it on to my daughter. So we made a little mess, but we also created some memories and cute jewelry.

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Bracelets top to bottom: Dionne made a bracelet for her roommate’s daughter; Maya’s creation; My creation.

April and her daughter Maya blog about fashion and their life in Wisconsin in a light-hearted register that reminds us all that attitude is the defining characteristic of your day.

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You can be featured in this ongoing series, Beautiful Mess, that encourages Oisercage readers to live more and worry less about making messes. Life is about doing, not organizing. Check out other bloggers who’ve been featured here. To participate, see my my first Mess for details and the inspiration behind this project. 

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As promised the first round of Beautiful mess is here! Kerry from This Tinder was too busy making pillows and bracelets to clean this mess up!! A mess of fabric and the beautiful Kerry herself thrown in! Kerry is a multifarious creative. Her blog and Etsy are full of beautiful paintings, drawings and other artwork.

Be featured next! Send me your mess and tell me what creative endeavor kept you from cleaning it up! For full details and the inspiration behind this project, see my own mess here!


Kerry from ThisTinder:

Here are few photos from my latest mess. I spent the weekend going through old bits of fabric I have laying around…I’ve made a few bracelets (as shown on my blog this week) and done some basic mending on top of the pillows and curtains. The last photo is a pillow I made out of some fabric and my boyfriend’s favorite t-shirt ever. It was getting pretty raggedy and he didn’t want to throw it out so now we have this great conversation starter pillow lying around :)

Give her some LOVE!!!

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I’ve made a huge mess. But I like it and I’ll tell you why.

I come from an immaculate household so I’ve always had a generous side-dish of guilt with respect to neatness. My mother always worked in nursing; neatness was an occupational quirk. She always seemed to be cleaning and asking me – which is to say telling me in the form of a question – when was I going to clean the dishes, my room, etc.

But , why should you clean? When you’ve got better things to do. Since last week I’ve been thinking about cleaning my desk. I’ve moved flower pots, relocated piles to the floor and chairs and back. But I didn’t clean. And I felt bad. But then I realized this is beautiful. This is Poiesis, the Greek version of what I like to call making stuff up. I also like Heiddeger’s definition:

a moment of ecstasis when something moves away from its standing as one thing to become another.

 

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You cannot get ecstatic or make anything in a void. You have to get messy.

And Life is all about making stuff. About doing, not organizing. You can always organize later when you’re tired. It does not take that much brain power to stack things up. But, it will take your whole brain, your sinew and your heart to make something worthwhile.

I’d like to start a collection of Beautiful Messes.

I will eventually clean my desk when I’m tired and have nothing better to do. But if I do anything interesting, creative, out of the box, if I follow my instincts and forge every idea into something concrete, if I do anything worthwhile, my desk will always be looking like a piled up mess.

I’d like to do a weekly round-up of messes. Send me your mess. A picture with a line telling us what you made while you were too busy to clean! OR if your mess cannot be photographed send me 100 words about it and I’ll post that along with the pictures. We will make a collage of Beautiful Messes. I will post the batch every Monday on the blog and on the Facebook Page so that you can inspire everyone else to get messy the rest of the week.

Your mess can be a work in progress, something you just started or something you’ve destroyed because…well, you made it and then you knew you could do better so you’re starting over. All good places to start. Come on over! oisercage {@} gmail {.}com

 

Beautiful details from a Beautiful Mess:

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Translation: Let’s Get Dirty